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Posts of Memories Past and the Magic of Making Eye Contact
Love and life are reflected in a glance.

HEY, THERE!
We’re winding down Month Two of 2025 and each week I’m (kind of) surprised by how much teddy bear news is out there.
Weekly.
And sometimes, daily.
Be it teddy bear books being published or bear exhibits launching at the Louvre in Paris, bears are front and center.
Take Paddington.
The old school bear is still captivating fans of all ages and his backstory comes to light in Paddington in Peru.

The third installment in the series hit theaters on Valentine’s Day.
I’m partial to Paddington 2, but we’ll see what this third film brings in the charm category.
For the first movie, nearly 350 effects artists spent two-and-a-half years creating the animated bear and integrating him into the live action movie, according to Variety magazine.
The hardest part?
“Finding the character that everyone loves,” said Charles Howell, production head in the Montreal office of vfx house Framestore, in the 2015 Variety article.
“People know the books. We had the daunting challenge of bringing this creature to life. He had to be a realistic, living, breathing furry bear, not just a cartoon character.”
In short, Howell said: “We put the life in his eyes.”
(Oh, and kept his British character.)
I couldn’t agree more.
About the eyes being the key to a bear’s connection, that is.
Buckle up for the breakdown.
Next up in this issue:
A Holocaust survivor shares his teddy bear story.
A Memory Parade and the power of eye contact.
Wanted: YOUR teddy bear stories
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LINKS
TEDDY BEARS IN PUBLIC
📚 HOLOCAUST HISTORYJohn Hajdu tells the story of the tiny teddy he took when his family was forced out of their home by the Nazis. He was 7 at the time. (What Would You Bring and The Convex Conversation) | ![]() John Hajdu and his teddy bear. (Photo by Rankin/The Convex Conversation) |
🎨 MUSEUMS
A teddy bear exhibit at the Louvre Museum in Paris includes a therapeutic bear by a Canadian woman. (Global News)
🧸 PUBLISHING
A 98-year-old World War II Navy veteran published his first book, How’s Teddy? The True Story of Teddy Love (WJAR)
👷 LEGO
The LEGO Paddington Bear set made the cut of the 10 Best LEGO Creations last month. (Yanko Design)
DEEP DIVE
ALL EYES ON THEE
![]() Albert, Pinky and Toby | The countdown to college and more high school high jinks is long past for my former munchkins, but Meta can’t resist taking me along the Memory Parade. When Posts of the Past pop up, I usually smile and keep it moving. Not today. Not when the posts spotlight their People. |
Not the humans, like me, who have helped them succeed.
No, Ma’am.
Today we’re talking about their Plushie Pals.
Their Stuffed Animal Entourage. Their Bosom Friends of Fur.
Super G had Lamb-y, Olivia (a rag bear I made), Toby (dog she won), Pinkie (gift bear) and Alcatraz (giant sloth she bought).
JM3 had Froggy, which was a lizard (Don’t ask); Raffie (a mini giraffe) and Piggy.
Names aside, these furry friends helped us ALL grow up big and tall; confident and sure - knowing that comfort is portable.
THESE FURRY FRIENDS HELPED US ALL GROW UP BIG AND TALL . . . KNOWING THAT COMFORT IS PORTABLE.
Afterall, a plushie is one of the first things the kids learned to love aside from me. And being in this Inner Circle meant these peeps got the Family Treatment.
Hugs and adventures
Wingman status in Lego battles
Pillow Pet Mode during Movie Night
Foot rest in the living room fort
They were to be protected, too.
So no throwing, trashing or performing unauthorized surgery on said People was allowed.
Ever.
Sure, said concept took a while to sink in, but the lessons paid off in not so obvious ways.
Super G articulates her feelings with a precision I admire. JM3 tends to keep his close to the vest, but knows how to share them when he’s ready.
Sometimes they both needed reinforcements to tell their tales about a sibling fight or the kid who called them stupid on the bus.
That’s when the Old Heads - my Albert and Bearfoot - gave them snuggable courage.
But when I look back to where it began - the Plushie to Human connection - it’s in the eyes.
They’re the windows to our souls and what recognizes love.
At first sight or the future potential.
In both cases, it’s LIFE that’s reflected.
One that hints at companionship, wonder, and possibilities.
Thank the connection that formed - and deepens over time.
You know it from childhood and see it in the relationship your kids have with their favorite stuffed animals.
But how do you build that from scratch?
In a bear you’ve made - and want to be a part of someone’s life?
We’ll dig into it next week with the Anatomy of an Expression series.
See, a teddy bear’s expression is an opening, an invitation extended, thanks to:
The set of the eyes
The curve and placement of the ears
The type of nose
And the set of the mouth
Done right, this expressive face creates an opportunity for someone to forge a friendship that can outlast marriage, the stickiest trends and your questionable fashion choices.
It’s magic and the power to make it is in your hands.
THE WHO OF YOU
WANTED: BEAR STORIES
We want to hear your teddy bear story. How did you meet? What impact has your road buddy had on your life? Big and small stories are welcome. Hit reply and share. Or, forward this to the bear lover in your life. Stories will be featured on our new podcast and here in the newsletter. | ![]() One of my heart-made bears with their new BFF. |
BEAR MUSINGS
The only ones I have expectations of are myself and my teddy bear.
Until next week,
